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Intentional Relationships: Because Who Wants a Bland Love Life?


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Alright, before we jump into why intentional relationships are the real deal, let's get on the same page about what they actually are. According to the dictionary, intentional means “done on purpose; deliberate.” In other words, it’s about being proactive, not just sitting around waiting for life to happen to you.

Intentional relationships are the opposite of convenient ones. They’re not about short-term flings, eye candy, or just having someone to split the rent with. Nope, when you dive into an intentional relationship, you’re signing up for the long haul.

You’ll tackle the tough stuff and learn to grow together as a team. This means not bailing when the going gets tough. Sure, conflict will rear its ugly head, but instead of ducking for cover, you’ll face it head-on together.

Sounds like a lot of work, huh? So why bother with intentional relationships?

Well, like anything worth having, hard work pays off. Here are just a few perks of being in an intentional relationship:


They’re Built to Last: Relationships can drift, even the romantic ones. After years together, it’s natural. But in intentional relationships, you care enough to fight against that drift. You notice when distance starts creeping in and you find a way to bridge it. These relationships have a better shot at going the distance.


They’re Stronger: Conflicts and arguments are par for the course, but in intentional relationships, you tackle them with solid conflict management skills. You learn to be open and honest. The more you communicate through the rough patches, the closer you become.


They Make You Happier: Your partner is your go-to person, the one who knows your secrets, fears, and all the weird stuff you do when no one’s watching—and loves you anyway. But they can only be that person if your relationship is intentional. Having someone you love and rely on leads to a healthier, happier life.

Want to keep your relationship intentional?


Here’s how:

  • Bring Your A-Game: Stick to your values, listen well, love deeply, and show gratitude.

  • Be Their Cheerleader: Support their dreams and ambitions. Invest your time and energy in them.

  • Give More Than You Take: If you both do this, you’ll constantly strive to be better for each other.

  • Make Time for Each Other: Life’s gonna throw curveballs, but set a weekly date night and stick to it—no excuses.

  • Create Daily Rituals: It’s the little things that count. Spend time together every day, whether it’s over morning coffee or an evening walk.


Intentional relationships are incredibly rewarding when you both prioritize your life together. Want more tips on living intentionally? Stay tuned!


 
 
 

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